Ten Tips for a Better Seder - with Trump Tips Added
It's a great performance. A dramatic Off-Broadway revue.
I have always had fun directing the reading of the Haggadah at the Seder. I learned this dramatic art as a child by watching my father (Rabbi Zev Zahavy) masterfully conduct the performance of the communal synagogue Seders as the rabbi of the Park East Synagogue in Manhattan. He did it right and authentic and dramatic.
So in the spirit of the season of rebirth and freedom, let me offer you ten tips for your seder extravaganza - this year we must add Trump Tips.
Spend an hour before Passover reading through your favorite version of the Haggadah. Sort out the rituals (like Kiddush), the liturgies (like the Hallel) and the learning (like the ma nishtanah and what follows). Make marginal notes or use a highlighter.
Trump Tip: Preparing is for wusses. Organization is for sissies. Do not waste time preparing.
Find out who is coming (yes, Seder directors need to know that). Think through what their skills are and what role they can play in the Seder. Remember some guests may be simple, some wise, some won't know how to ask a question. Try to meet the needs of everyone assembled.
Trump Tip: Treat everyone with equal disdain. If you don't like how they read - just say, "You're fired!" and move on.
The Best Ever Seder will be a collaboration of all the guests. Those who can't read Hebrew can read a passage from the Haggadah in translation (English, Russian or otherwise) or perform another essential task.
Trump Tip: Collaboration is for liberals. Skip that. But definitely incorporate Russian readings.
The matzo, maror, haroseth, shank bone, egg all have familiar symbolic meanings worth mentioning. You can include other props of your choosing for added flavor to the event: use miniature pyramids, toy or paper or chocolate frogs, relevant family memorabilia or a special illustrated Haggadah (hold it up to show it off or pass it around).
Trump Tip: Using books is a nice idea. Books are good. Donald loves books. But models of buildings are best. Get some, use them.
5. Child actors!
Give them something nice at the retrieval of the afikomen or distribute something small anytime they start to lose interest.
Trump Tip: Did you know that I have Jewish grandchildren? Wild!
During the reading of the Haggadah tell about how your family matriarch or patriarch conducted the Seder or prepared the meal. Reminiscing in small doses adds great flavor to your production.
Trump Tip: Stories are bunk. Don't believe them. Fake News! It's all fake.
7. Really! Drama!
The Seder is a drama. The guests are the actors. Yemenite Jews have the custom to dress up and walk around the table to reenact the exodus. Even if you are not much of an actor, at the very least, you can talk about how other people are dramatic.
Trump Tip: Acting is good. Drama is huge! Authentic is so overrated.
8. No melodrama!
You and your guests all are on stage. This is not the time to bring up old family arguments. If you do, your Seder might become the "last supper" that you eat together.
Trump Tip: If you have not settled an argument - you don't have a deal. Always bring up the past - so you can get to the deal.
9. Charm the critic!
The matriarchs (of the families) must greet Elijah at the door. Watch as the wine in Elijah's cup changes color as he sips from it. Talk about loss and the mystical redemption.
Trump Tip: Just free associate to any topic you want. It works for me - as long as I talk tough and act confident.
10. Bring down the curtain with with over-the-top gusto!
Sing the closing songs in all the ways you can remember. You can sing Chad Gadya in Yiddish, if someone knows how, or you can add the animal sounds. Have fun -- these are supposed to be rowdy songs that you sing after drinking four cups of wine.
Trump Tip: By the end of your Seder, if you follow my guidelines, nobody else will be in your home.
As the seder thespians say, "Break a shankbone!" Good luck and have a happy and kosher Pesach.
Trump Tip: Luck has nothing to do with life.
[annual repost, with a Trump rewrite]