You do not have to be traditionally religious to be pious.
Piety means that you live day-to-day and physically act with a connection to Judaism. It means that you maintain vivid moods and motivations in accord with a faith in the Torah.
Piety means that you transform everyday activities, decisions, and attitudes. It means that you give them special significance. And where does that come from? It can come from the historical, mystical, and redemptive beliefs of Judaism. When you live with piety, you create and perform new practices based on your faith.
- Your motives and goals as a pious person are to enhance every day of your life.
- To bring you sanctification, qedushah.
- To bring you more awe, love, or fear of God.
- To allow you to submit to a higher power and create a sense of creatureliness.
- To guarantee you an entry to paradise in the "World to Come" (for those who believe in the afterlife or heaven).
- To bring for all in your world some form of redemption.
- And, on a most basic level, you may believe that piety also brings you some material gain.
We call piety custom or minhag when it is more limited in time and place and less authoritative. Most often this distinction goes unrecognized in your life as a pious Jew.
The ultimate yardstick of piety is the Zaddiq -- the righteous saint. He or she adheres most closely to the norms of ultimate piety. The righteous saints are those who we would call purely ethical, those who flourish as proper humans, and those who achieve true virtue.
Not many of us reach the ultimate in any part of our lives. We play golf, never expecting to become a Tiger Woods. We paint, do business, make love, for the fulfillment of each element of our lives. Yet we sometimes forsake religion because we think piety is out of our reach.
Piety is there for all of us.